If you are thinking about finding a Thai girl to become your girlfriend than there are a few things that you should know first. Thai ladies for the most part are really easy to get along with and this (besides their incredible beauty) is one of the things that make dating a Thai woman so appealing. But if you are a Western man and truly want to be happy in a relationship with a Thai woman than you should read the following 6 things to keep a Thai girl happy.
1. Thai Girls Truly Enjoy Taking Care of You
Being so used to being with Western women, it was difficult for me to grasp the concept that Thai women are taught at a very early age that it is there duty to take care of their boyfriend/husband. They truly enjoy cooking and taking care of most of the chores. Bottom line is, this is a very different characteristic between Western girls and Thai girls. With Thai girls, you not only feel that they care about you, but they show it every day in the small tasks they so lovingly perform.
2. Many Thai Women Have a Jealous Streak
Many girls can be jealous, but Thai girls are known to especially be jealous lovers. It’s not a big deal if you are honest but just keep it in mind when you are out with other people. Your girlfriend likely won’t say anything about your behavior at the time but she’ll likely bring up a “questionable” situation when it is advantageous to her. Again, if you are a good and loyal man, don’t worry about it. Just make sure to know that the first few months of your relationship with a Thai girl means that you are on probation.
3. Thai Women Love Romance
This one shouldn’t surprise anyone. Thai women love romance and they love to have little romantic surprises mixed into the days and weeks. I have to be honest here and say that I’m not exactly the most romantic guy in the world. Fortunately, there are lots of websites out there that can give you tips on what types of things you can do for your Thai girlfriend. This site already has some gift ideas for your Thai girlfriend for wife. In the future, I will blog about other romantic things that I have found many Thai girls just love.
4. Thai Women Dress For Success and Expect You to Do the Same
Everything from their beautiful long black hair to their colorful and intricate nail designs, Thai girls love looking beautiful. Not only that but for every situation, there is a proper way to dress. Sure, there are times when you and your Thai girlfriend wear shorts and tee shirts. But if you are meeting people considered to be of importance, expect them to dress very properly. In addition, expect that your Thai girlfriend will what you to do the same. It’s a small thing that they ask and definitely worth it if you’ve ever had a Thai girl as your lover. So when the time comes, don’t put up a fight and shave that 3-day old stubble. Go ahead and put some nice pants on and a dress shirt. In the end, she’ll be happy and she’ll make sure that you are happy as well.
5. Family is Very Important to Thai Girls
Families are very close in Thailand so expect to become close to your girlfriend’s or wife’s family. The mother and father are especially important and you need to understand that the children are expected to take care of the parents in one way or another when they get old. This is drilled into them with their Thai Buddhism upbringing. This usually means either paying for things for the parents if they don’t have much money or even having the parents live in the same house. For Western men, this is something that you simply have to get accustomed to as it is very different from the way we were raised.
6. Thai Ladies Love to Be Seen
If you want a very happy Thai girl, than take her out on the town every once in a while. The Thai women I know love to dress up and go out for some drinks and dancing. Karaoke is also highly popular in Thailand and many girls like to get up and belt out the latest Thai pop songs. In addition, take here traveling from time to time and she’ll love you for it. Many Thai girls I know have very little travel experience so even a short trip to a different area in Thailand can be pretty exciting for them.
The bottom line is that if you understand and follow the few things that Thai women want than I guarantee you will be a happy man with your Thai girlfriend!